In some ways, we are primed to expect death of the aged or of pets are inevitable. That doesn't make grief easier to bear. But the feeling of shock you describe hit harder when the death is unexpected. When you think your co-traveler is getting down at the end destination but you wake up one morning and realize they've gotten off the train way earlier than they should. And you've no idea where and have to stay on the train. Bewildering and so hard. I find the Ernest Becker quotes interesting; will look up this book. I'm glad you wrote about this. Tribute and memories aside, sometimes writing helps us process feelings.
My condolences Namit! Writing about him is a lovely way to pay tribute to his life.
Thank you, Binu 🌸
In some ways, we are primed to expect death of the aged or of pets are inevitable. That doesn't make grief easier to bear. But the feeling of shock you describe hit harder when the death is unexpected. When you think your co-traveler is getting down at the end destination but you wake up one morning and realize they've gotten off the train way earlier than they should. And you've no idea where and have to stay on the train. Bewildering and so hard. I find the Ernest Becker quotes interesting; will look up this book. I'm glad you wrote about this. Tribute and memories aside, sometimes writing helps us process feelings.